Orgasm

General information

The orgasm is the third stage of sexual stimulation, according to the model in four phases of the sexual answer of Masters and Johnson.

In a Sexual relation, it is usually preceded by plays in love and Caresses with intense a sexual Excitation associated.

It can be characterized by other involuntary actions: a fall of the Vigilance, pupils of the eyes which dilate, a Lubrification Genitals, vocalizations (rails, cries, sighs, etc), an increased breathing whose oxygen contribution multiplies by ten the feelings, of the spasms of the face, the various muscular contractions (the coitus being physical by nature, from its “to and from”), a redness of the skin, an excitation of the nipples, etc; to lead to the “point of nonreturn” which starts intense a physical pleasure.

It is the conclusion of the phase in plate by the slackening of the sexual Tension, accompanied by a series of muscular contractions fast surrounding the areas of the Anus, the muscles of the Périnée and the genitals, with the ejaculation of Sperme, or less frequently of fluid among women.

An euphoric feeling generalized is felt, which will consequently be accompanied by the last phase: the resolution of the sexual tension, an appeasing.

The orgasm can also be obtained by means of the solitary Masturbation, without associated partner.

Pleasure and orgasm

Pleasure , in a sexual context, is a synonym of orgasm .

In a sexual context to enjoy means: to test a orgasm .

The orgasm

Orgasm clitoridien/pénien and vaginal orgasm

Traditionally one distinguishes two kinds of orgasm: the orgasm clitoridien/pénien and the vaginal orgasm .

First is regarded as more running and basic.

The second would require a training most of the time.

In fact, the last discoveries concerning the Clitoris show that the orgasm known as " vaginal" always the clitoris via its deep branches implements which frame the walls of the vagina. The distinction between vaginal orgasm and orgasm clitoridien would not thus take place any more to be, even if the components psychological, emotional, physiological, anatomical intermingle so much in this field which it is difficult to isolate a zone or a body in this mechanism.

The female orgasm

Female ejaculation

See also: female Ejaculation

By stimulation of the Not G, certain women expel a more or less abundant liquid (women “fountains”). This liquid is produced by the Glandes of Skene (called sometimes female prostate) and its emission can be correlated or not with the orgasm.

To believe Voltaire of it, in the Man with the forty Ecus celebrates it Jesuit Sánchez believed like article of faith “that the two fluid vehicles of the man and the woman spring and are linked together, and that in the moment the child is designed by this union”, sharing in that the opinion of Hippocrates. And it was if persuaded that it raised a theological question which one would dare to quote only in Latin: “ Utrum virgo Maria semen emiserit in copulatione cum Spiritu Sancto . ”

Having studied the facts more closely that theologist illustrates it who, ensures us the Catholic Encyclopedia , " carried his baptismal innocence to the grave" , Voltaire noticed that “there are many women who do not spread any liquor, which receives only with aversion the embraces of their husbands, and who however have children of them. That only decides against Hippocrates and Sanchez. ”

A contrario , the modern studies shows that the female ejaculatory liquid facilitates the survival and the fecundation of the spermatozoa thus the possibilities of fecundation.

The idea that the female vaginal orgasms are more “mature” was put forward in an original manner by Sigmund Freud. In 1905, Freud claimed that the orgasm clitoridien was an adolescent phenomenon, and that the answer specific to the adult women is the vaginal orgasm (caused by the coitus rather than by the Masturbation). Whereas Freud did not present an evidence supporting this theory, the consequences were elaborate later and disastrous for much of women.

In 1966, Masters and Johnson published important research relating to sexual stimulation. Their studies, relating as much to the women that on the men, tried to establish the physiological stages afterwards leading to the coming orgasm like those. One of the conclusions was that the orgasms clitoridien and vaginal follow the same stages. Moreover, they supported the thesis which stimulation clitoridienne was the primary cause of the orgasm.

Doctors and feminists support that the prostatic orgasm does not exist, the orgasm being obtained only by stimulation clitoridienne. The interested parties do not give an explanation on the fact that the vaginal orgasm can be learned by sexological techniques.

A new comprehension of the vaginal orgasm was elaborate in the Années 1980. Many women report that to reach the orgasm, they need a vaginal stimulation associated with stimulation clitoridienne.

Recent anatomical research shows the existence of a nervous connection between intravaginaux fabrics and the clitoris. As well as a nervous way differentiated between the clitoris and the vagina.

Added obviously anatomical showing that the internal body of the clitoris is much larger than one did not believe hitherto, this could explain the orgasm among women having undergone the Excision Clitoris

The orgasm of the man

The orgasm pénien is characterized by fast and rhythmic contractions of the Prostate, Urètre and muscles at the base of the Pénis. These contractions expel the Sperme by the urethral meatus of the penis (the ejaculation). This process hard from 3 to 10 seconds and is usually accompanied by a feeling by intense pleasure. There exists another type of orgasm at the man: the prostatic orgasm by direct stimulation of the prostate.

The men can have orgasms before sexual maturity, but they do not ejaculate. It is also possible for man adult to have orgasm without to ejaculate (for example when it already ejaculated several times), one then speaks about reserved pressure, and to ejaculate without orgasm (what can be the case for the ejaculatory early ones in particular).

These nonejaculatory orgasms have a quality different from the orgasm resulting from direct stimulation from the penis.

A very widespread false idea wants that some practical tantric allow the men who wish it to manage to control itself. They are sexological techniques used by organizers of not very scrupulous training courses, without relationship with the traditional Tantrisme.

The sex act being very related to unconscious emotional mechanisms related on the personal value, the capacity to be somebody of interesting, etc, it is recommended to the men and to women who practice this technique to warn their partners in order to avoid at his place or it a feeling of frustration related to what could be interpreted like an incapacity to really make to orgasmer the partner.

After the human orgasm

You took me along to the seventh sky| Jennifer Aniston with Jim Carrey, in the film very powerful Bruce

The orgasm generally involves physiological effects before the partners can decide Re to make love . One speaks then about “ Nuit of love ” for those which succeed in obtaining several orgasms during this period (until cinq-six time, even more…?).

The refractory period

According to the terms of William Masters and Virginia Johnson, it follows a refractory Period, known as “Résolution” which can be more or less long according to the age and the degree of excitation (of a few seconds; generally from 5 to 20 minutes; until several days).

The couple, if it wishes it, rather than to abruptly finish this relation by an immediate withdrawal of the sexes and bodies (this situation is generally badly perceived by the woman, more sensitive than the man), can prolong the pleasure of its union, by dividing this moment of intimacy by one calm moment of : the Glance, the Caresses, the Tenderness, all in unscrewing quietly; that can only reinforce the love that dedicates two intimate people… However, there can be other reactions started just after the orgasm:

Physiological reactions

Emotions

Then… happy? | Jean-Pierre Marielle, in the film " Wafers of Bridge-Swallow-hole "

Various kinds of emotions more or less " happy " can be felt after the orgasm.

Positive

A partner alone or the whole couple can feel plenitude (of its union, with world or the universe, etc) sometimes while reminding himself what has just occurred, such as for example in certain scenes of the film Lady Chatterley . The Amour is generally associated with this positive feeling.

Negative

Post coïtum animated tristis| Ovide, Art to like (After the coitus, the heart is sad)

Ovide teaches us by there that the human being can feel a feeling of sadness, of Mélancolie and/or Nostalgie (the Fatigue and the Stress can be associated there) compared to what it has just done like sexual experiment. More prosaically, it is completely normal to feel a certain sadness after a sexual relation, the neocortex taking again its functions, the thought which takes again its normal course, the flood of hormones which is positioned back…

There can be also a negative feeling even failure if the report/ratio were not satisfactory for one or the other partner.

According to waiting of the couple vis-a-vis the result at the end of the sexual relation, or if there were an objective of too ambitious success posed before this one. For example, certain people regard the orgasm as a extatic experiment obligatorily associated with the coitus, even complete result of their emotional relation. That can be déceptif completely because an love affair cannot be based entirely on the “Sexe”.

The sleep

The post-orgasmic relaxation of the bodies supports the Sommeil which can occur afterwards, if one agrees to it. The men are frequently prone there but not always. The women are prone there also, but in a less proportion.

Female tears

Pleurs, on behalf of the woman (it is more prone there than the man), can occur spontaneously and naturally after a Sexual relation, if the induced emotional load, the physical erotic load, the sexual excitation, were strongly felt during the Coït, especially in its Genital. There is then a kind of return, of relaxation of the tension, tonic of the basin of the woman towards the head, causing this reaction at the same time. It is not necessary to be alarmed then. Except if the cause is of origin traumatic and driven back in the Inconscient.

“Problems of orgasm” (turbid sexual)

The woman can not have an orgasm during a sexual relation, never to even test it.

The performance

Multiorgasmic capacity

Certain subjects present a multiorgasmic possibility what means that they can try out several orgasms with little time of interval from/to each other. This phenomenon is by far much more running to the women that at the men.

In spite of the attraction which can, initially, to present the multiorgasmic capacity, it is not necessarily an advantage since probably often related to the control of the orgasmic rise. Several orgasms are then necessary to sexual satisfaction.

Research showed that the proportion of naturally multiorgasmic women would be approximately 13%. Whereas the men naturally multiorgasmic are in a negligible proportion. That is perhaps related to the anatomical and cultural differences. The man having more easily access to the orgasm pénien than the woman with the clitoridien. And this one is often blocked by the morals which wants that a woman must show herself “reserved”.

Elsewhere (will tantra it sexual)

See too

External bonds

three keys of the capacity orgasmic, Margot Anand
female Sexuality: the clitoris

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